Sort of had a debate with a good friend a few days ago, it is basically about relating stuffs together. For example, should work and relationship be correlated? Whatever problem that happens in a relationship should stay there, or should affect other part of a person's life as well?
Personally, I prefer to not related everything together. I have to agree a lot of things are somehow related to each other, but when solving problems I think all these correlations will just make things more complicated. I have certainly failed in relationship in the past, and I am thankful about still being able to go on with other parts of my life. Maybe I experience about these before, that's why I think a problem is more simple if there's no too much links.
I believe I am not really a person that can judge about other people's doing. Maybe if I do a good thing, I will get good fortune in the future, but I will choose not to think about it. I don't want to do a good act because I want to have a good future, I would prefer to do I just because I want to do it. Yes, future needs planning, but certain things which is not in my control/ I would prefer not to know now, then I'll just keep it unknown. Hence, whether a person that did a mistake/ bad thing will end up failing badly, I will let whoever that can decide to decide about it.
As usual, wish there's only one religion, one race, or everyone is just equal. I think these things really cause a lot of unnecessary problems. I was in a restaurant two days ago, siting beside some arrogant chinese students. Just because the waiter in the restaurant nag about them giving too many coins, a female student CLAIMED that the waiter is not china chinese, just some other chinese. So as usual, this claim applies to me as well. I was like, wtf what's that to brag about, not like my mandarin lose to you also.... @@. Discrimination is surely one of the worst thing that should be corrected. No matter how rich a person is, should not discriminate or look down on others =.=
Pokemon GO just launched in Malaysia 3 days ago, yay! Finally a lot of my friends back home can play. I certainly play as well, and that's the only thing that I look forward to everyday, since I need to constantly do my dissertation as well. Personally, don't think it is a bad thing, and I do get closer with friends that I'm initially not close with. A lot of haters complain about the game, saying that it cause danger, not healthy for people to play, bla bla bla.. I don't think not playing the game makes a person better than the others, is probably just a personal choice. Accident can definitely be avoided if players just be careful and not playing it while driving/ cycling etc. Not everything can only be learnt from textbooks in schools, these are just the mindset of people that keep restricting themselves in their own world. That's what I meant about some people being judgemental and hopes everyone in this world follow what they want. & also relating the game with accidents, bad influence, etc etc are just people's own imagination, and when bad things happen they will just exaggerate them.
Apologise for being critical in this post, but certainly to move forward/ improve, I think people should be more open-minded.
End of the day. Sayonara
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